How to Find Yourself

There comes a point in many people’s lives when they feel quite keenly that they have absolutely no idea who they are.

“Who am I? And what do I really want out of this life?”

Self-discovery can’t happen unless we think that our identity is something valuable and worth not only investigating, but caring for and cherishing.

You learned that to get affection and care, you needed to obey and be like everyone else.

“Can you please tell me who I am?”

They want to learn more about who they are, but they seek it externally.

all feels like an obligation

They don’t enjoy anything

They have only practiced serving the needs of others, and they have no idea what their own needs are

Because they have spent so much time focusing their energy and attention externally, they are completely unused to looking inside themselves.