How to Trick Yourself Into Doing Things You Hate

For many people, inertia, laziness, fear, procrastination, self-doubt, endless debating and analyzing, second-guessing, “planning,” and self-sabotage are the default. But for those with an action bias, taking a step forward is the thing that happens automatically, to the extent that it takes effort not to act.

Deliberately schedule the times you will spend planning, researching, etc., and times when you will be taking concrete, results-creating action. For example, block out 9 a.m. to 10 a.m. for writing but reserve the afternoon for planning, studying, or contemplating.

taking action is such a good idea and so easy to do, then why don’t we do it more often?

There are many answers to this question, but most of it comes down to anxiety. We feel like we don’t yet know enough to act, we’re afraid of the outcome, or we’re worried there’s a risk we haven’t prepared for. We feel we don’t have enough authority or clarity or ability to act.

Do something small now, see where it lands you

Keep coming back to the real world where there are specific steps you can take in the here and now.

Instead of asking yourself about all the many reasons you can’t or shouldn’t act, focus instead on asking: What thing can I do right now?

Do something small now, see where it lands you, and go from there.

There will never be a perfect time.

fact, your task is in many ways an easier one: Just do something. Take a step, even a small one, in the right direction, right now. That’s all.

The theme we will keep returning to is the necessity of cultivating whatever attitude we need to in order to consistently choose action over anything else.