Love Yourself FIRST

Don’t listen to your inner critic

Don’t criticize others

When you blame others for things that happen in your life, you give them the power over your life.

There is only one person that's responsible for your life, and that is YOU! Not your boss, not your spouse, not your parents, not your friends, not your clients, not the economy, not the weather, not the president. YOU!

Keep your word

Guilt keeps you a prisoner of your past and keeps you from acting in the present.

n many cases, by feeling guilty, we try to show that we are sorry for what we did, but what we are actually doing is torturing ourselves for something we did and can’t change anymore. We end up saying what people want us to say, doing what they want us to do and conform to please others which results in the need to always make a good impression.

Guilt was used to manipulate us.

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Stop judging

On your way to a happier, more fulfilling life and to building a healthy self-esteem, one toxic habit you have to leave behind is the habit of judging others. Judging goes hand in hand with the bad habits of blaming and complaining and will keep you from becoming happy and developing self-esteem.
Accept others without judging them, and without expectations. Walk a mile in their shoes before you judge them, as you want them to walk a mile in your shoes before they judge you.
Everybody you meet on your journey is fighting their own unique battle, and we have no idea what they are dealing with, just like they have no idea what you are going through.
Just stop judging and show some empathy. It’s easier said than done, but there is no way around it.
Did you know that each time you’re judging somebody you are actually judging yourself?
The things that bother you the most about others are actually the things that bother you the most about yourself

Those who can, DO, those who can’t, criticize.