Discarding popular Christian advice to use romance and sweetness to draw a wandering spouse back into a marriage, Dr. David Clarke lays out a tough-love action plan for abused and betrayed spouses to rebuild their marriages through proven steps that will restore self-confidence one step at a time.

“I don't love you anymore.” These simple words have the power to send the listener into shock, denial, and desperation. The obvious response is to ask oneself, “What can I do to win my partner back?” In this classic book, Christian psychologist Dr. David Clarke provides just the battle plan needed.

Contrary to what many relationship “experts” recommend—weak, passive plans that involve begging or romancing a spouse back—Clarke offers an approach that he calls guerilla love, which essentially turns the tables on the wandering spouse.

Drawing healthy boundaries and restoring your self-esteemFive things your spouse really means when saying, “I don't love you anymore”The most popular “exit lies” and how to see through themClassic symptoms of a person who is having an affairLearning when it’s time to walk away

This book will remind you that you are worthy of love, that you are not a doormat, and that you are a prize. Dr. Clarke will empower and equip you to make the best and most God-honoring attempt at saving your marriage.

The Field in Winter