A Joosr Guide to… The Antidote by Oliver Burkeman

In other words, enjoy what you are doing in the here and now. Let opportunities arise naturally instead of trying to force things to happen. It may be that your life takes on a whole other shape than you expected: you might find new talents, make new friends, or perhaps emigrate to start a new life in another country. Stop over-planning, stop goal-setting, and instead simply enjoy the vast richness that life has to offer.