We all, I think, know these statistics, or at least have a vague sense of them. We know miscarriage is out there, at our backs, pursuing us, like Andrew Marvell’s wingéd chariot.
It’s why you’re not supposed to tell people you’re pregnant until you’ve passed the magic twelve-week point, until you come out of hospital clutching a monochrome sonogram picture. Only then can you inform your friends, your in-laws, your employers; only then can you go out and buy wire-less bras and stretchy tops; only then can you leave your antenatal vitamin bottles lying about the house with impunity; only then will you start getting calls from relatives, suggesting old family names, insisting that the daily drinking of Guinness is crucial for breastfeeding, offering knitted matinee jackets, stiff with age.