This book is the result of more than ten years of study and in-depth analysis on the subject of communication applied to improving romantic relationships. It consists of the book “Communicating to Seduce, Engage and Excite in Romantic Relationships” (Part One) and is accompanied by over 40 short essays (Parts Two and Three) covering the most relevant concepts in the field.

A valuable text written by a specialised communication coach for all those who wish to improve their communication skills within a couple, during seduction and when maintaining relationships.

Table of Contents:

1. COMMUNICATING TO SEDUCE, ENGAGE AND EXCITE IN ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS

Quality of Relationships and Quality of Life
Technology Has Taken us by Storm
The ‘Boiling Point’
Failure is Always Easier
The Responsibility is Yours Alone
Communication is a Real Mess
Being Alone Sucks
You Are a Diamond
It All Depends on How You Communicate
I Don’t Think You’ll f*** More (or maybe you will)
The Great Illusion of ‘Seduction’
What Other Coaches Don't Tell You
Interpreting Communication Contexts
But I Can’t Communicate Well …
The Discomfort of Feeling ‘Out of Place’.
Ever Heard of ‘Social Intelligence’?
The Story of Philip, Perennially in the Friendship Zone
In Love, the Fugitive Wins?
Always Identify Communication Objectives
Expectations Are the Stuff of Children
Everything Seems Easy at First …
You Create Your Relational Destiny
Feeling Inadequate? Maybe You're Missing A Block
The ‘Boss’ and the ‘Loser’.
No Opportunities? Create Them, Don’t Make Excuses Anymore
Making Love With the Mind Before the Body
Don't Be Afraid of Making a Fool of Yourself
You Have Your Whole Life to Improve
Prince Charming Doesn't Exist… and The Princess is Bipolar
Bad News: You're Never Yourself
But It’s the Shyness That Gets Me …
Uncontrollable variables (or Crazy Splinters)

2. INSIGHTS PART I

Love is a Choice
How to Overcome Unrequited Love
Communication — Quality o Silence
Recognising Emotions
Always be Respected
Manage Emotions, Don't Bury Them!
Learning to Say No, Guilt and Self-Image
Love in the Time of Tinder — Superficiality, Idealisation, Immaturity and Self-Image
The Wounds of Your Inner Child
You Can’t Win With Logic
Dangerous Consequences of Communicating Emotions Quietly
Possessiveness, Being Sexy and Insecurity

3. INSIGHTS PART II

Use Style and Sensibility to Distinguish Yourself from the Competition
Being Sensitive is a ‘Pluss’ (that has to be managed well)
You Have to Give Authentic Emotions to Receive Quality Emotions
Making Love with a Person's Mind
Logical Language and Metaphorical Language
Understanding Subtext
Assessing the Interlocutor's Investment
Engaging With the Mystery Technique
Giving, Taking, Representing an Emotional Challenge
Why You Should not Convey Your ‘Fearr’ of Losing Her
Make Wise Use of Compliments
Tips for Managing Chat Communication
Strengths and Weaknesses of Your Discussion Topics
Informing to Find Topics of Dialogue
Exciting Discussion Topics
Uncomfortable Topics to Avoid
How to keep the conversation high
Storytelling — Engage with Your Past and Challenges
The importance of Creativity and Originality in Communication
Reading Signals of Interest
Active Listening and Authentic Interest
Communicating with Body Language
The Wise Use of Pauses
How Appearance Matters in a Relationship
Knowledge phase. Attention to detail
Looking and caring for what we communicate without realising it
Tone of Voice and the Paraverbal

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